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 I've learned -
> that you cannot make someone love you.
> All you can do is
> be someone who can be loved.
> The rest is up to them.
>
> I've learned -
> that no matter how much I care,
> some people just don't care back.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that it takes years to build up trust,
> and only seconds to destroy it.
>
> I've learned -
> that it's not what you have in your life
> but who you have in your life that counts.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that you can get by on charm
> for about fifteen minutes.
> After that, you'd better know something.
>
> I've learned -
> that you shouldn't compare
> yourself to the best others can do
> but to the best you can do.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that it's not what happens to people
> that's important. It's what they do about it.
>
> I've learned -
> that you can do something in an instant
> that will give you heartache for life.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that no matter how thin you slice it,
> there are always two sides.
>
> I've learned -
> that it's taking me a long time
> to become the person I want to be.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that it's a lot easier
> to react than it is to think.
>
> I've learned -
> that you should always leave
> loved ones withloving words.
> It may be the last time you see them.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that you can keep going
> long after you think you can't.
>
> I've learned -
> that we are responsible for what we do,
> no matter how we feel.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that either you control your attitude
> or it controls you.
>
> I've learned -
> that regardless of how hot and steamy
> a relationship is at first,
> the passion fades and there had better be
> something else to take its place.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that heroes are the people
> who do what has to be done
> when it needs to be done,
> regardless of the consequences.
>
> I've learned -
> that learning to forgive takes practice.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that there are people who love you dearly,
> but just don't know how to show it.
>
> I've learned -
> that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
>
>
>
> I've learned -
> that my best friend and I can do anything
> or nothing and have the best time.
>
> I've learned -
> that sometimes the people you expect
> to kick you when you're down
> will be the ones to help you get back up.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that sometimes when I'm angry
> I have the right to be angry,
> but that doesn't give me
> the right to be cruel.
>
> I've learned -
> that true friendship continues to grow,
> even over the longest distance.
> Same goes for true love.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that just because someone doesn't love you
> the way you want them to doesn't mean
> they don't love you with all they have.
>
> I've learned -
> that maturity has more to do with
> what types of experiences you've had
> and what you've learned from them
> and less to do with how many
> birthdays you've celebrated.
>
>
> I've learned _
> that you should never tell a child
> their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
> Few things are more humiliating, and
> what a tragedy it would be
> if they believed it.
>
>
>
>
> I've learned -
> that your family won't always
> be there for you. It may seem funny,
> but people you aren't related to
> can take care of you and love you
> and teach you to trust people again.
> Families aren't biological.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that no matter how good a friend is,
> they're going to hurt you
> every once in a while
> and you must forgive them for that.
>
> I've learned -
> that it isn't always enough
> to be forgiven by others.
> Sometimes you have to learn
> to forgive yourself.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that no matter how bad
> your heart is broken
> the world doesn't stop for your grief.
>
> I've learned -
> that our background and circumstances
> may have influenced who we are,
> but we are responsible for who we become.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that sometimes when my friends fight,
> I'm forced to choose sides
> even when I don't want to.
>
> I've learned -
> that just because two people argue,
> it doesn't mean they don't love each other
> And just because they don't argue,
> it doesn't mean they do.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that sometimes you have to put
> the individual ahead of their actions.
>
> I've learned -
> that we don't have to change friends
> if we understand that friends change.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that you shouldn't be so
> eager to find out a secret.
> It could change your life forever.
>
> I've learned -
> that two people can look
> at the exact same thing
> and see something totally different.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that no matter how you try to protect
> your children, they will eventually get hurt
> and you will hurt in the process.
>
> I've learned -
> that there are many ways of falling
> and staying in love.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that no matter the consequences,
> those who are honest with themselves
> get farther in life.
>
> I've learned -
> that no matter how many friends you have,
> if you are their pillar you will feel lonely
> and lost at the times you need them most.
>
>
> I've learned -
> that your life can be changed
> in a matter of hours
> by people who don't even know you.
>
> I've learned -
> that even when you think
> you have no more to give,
> when a friend cries out to you,
> you will find the strength to help.
>
>
>
> I've learned -
> that writing, as well as talking,
> can ease emotional pains.
>
> I've learned -
> that the paradigm we live in
> is not all that is offered to us.
>
> I've learned -
> that credentials on the wall
> do not make you a decent human being.
>
> I've learned -
> that the people you care most about in life
> are taken from you too soon.
>
> I've learned -
> that although the word "love"
> can have many different meanings,
> it loses value when overly used.
>
> I've learned -
> that it's hard to determine
> where to draw the line
> between being nice and
> not hurting people's feelings
> and standing up for what you believe